CASSELBERRY Fla--Perched underneath a oak tree in Secret Lake Park on Saturday, June 24, is a cluster of addicts. With all their leather vests and guitars. These are not your typical addicts though, these addicts you want to talk to your children. For they have been to deepest depths of hell, as they have battled an addiction with the drug of their choice. From stealing friends and families cash, to pawning everything worth anything to get the money they needed to get their next fix.
At the head of this group, The Brotherhood, is Charles Skeltin, a former cocaine addict. Skeltin greets all his “brothers and sisters” before they begin their discussion. Wandering from person to person asking how the family is, how is work, everyday normal questions, he believes no one truly cares to question and listen. “I just asked myself: What would have helped me better? The answer is to be surrounded by my brothers and sisters without shame to confide in them about my addiction” says Skeltin.
As the group gets heavy into how they deal with the withdrawal symptoms ranging from night sweats which leaves one totally soaked in their own sweat, the shakes which sometimes can be uncontrollable, the tightening feeling in the chest which makes breathing difficult, horrid nightmares that end in those who have them screaming into consciousness. The worse they fear though is relapse.
Many of the “brothers and sisters” have relapsed many times, now with the Brotherhood, they considered it an easier process to stay clean and sober. “The Brotherhood has really given me the opportunity to unleash my demons and I am proud to say I have been sober for 9 years now” says Tony Blair, of Howie in the Hills, a former addict of many drugs.
Once the discussion of drugs subsides, many break out their guitars to just chill and relax amongst old and new friends. They play classics ranging from Black Sabbath to Metallica. Some play, some sing, others just sit and head bang, enjoying the head rush they receive as they swish they heads from side to side, back and fourth.
Wrapping the days event up, one brother- Mitch Hoffman, of Orlando, a former heroine addict, makes a note to be heard, “ If it wasn’t for my brothers, I would be dead. These guys have been through the bad, the good, the ugly, the pretty, EVERYTHING!”
This sends the brotherhood into a round of applause, cheers and howls. A perfect ending to a Drugs Anonymous meeting aka “The meeting of the Brotherhood”. For more information on the Brotherhood visit their myspace page at myspace.com/thebrotherhood.